whatevers happened in the past,should not affect ur present situation,ull be so closeby ur future goal yet way behind! Its just like driving and a rock comes in ur way what wud u do? would u reverse and go back? would u hit the rock to go through?The wise ones would think for a few minutes, park the car, get down and with all their might put the rock aside and get back into the car n move on! Cheers! jai sai naath